DIWALI

Today is Diwali, the Indian festival of lights, of sweets and of the significance of good over evil. Here is small write up I have flicked from another site.


Diwali As Harvest Festival

Diwali signifies Harvest Festival. As it occurs at the end of a cropping season and has along with the above customs, a few others that reinforce the hypothesis of its having originated as a harvest festival. Every harvest normally spelt prosperity. The celebration was first started in India by farmers after they reaped their harvests. They celebrated with joy and offered praises to God for granting them a good crop.On the second day of Deepavali, a ritual that is strongly suggestive of the origin of Deepavali as an harvest festival is performed. Worship of the Goddess of Wealth, Laxmi and performance of Aarti are a part of the harvest festival. On this day delicacies are prepared from pounded semi-cooked rice called Poha or Pauva. This rice is taken from the fresh harvest available at that time. This custom is prevalent both in rural and urban areas especially in Western India.In rural areas, Diwali signifies only this aspect. The reason being the fact that Diwali which is celebrated sometime in October/November co-incides with the end of a harvesting season, known as the Kharif season when the fresh crop of rice is available. Therefore, Diwali is also considered by many rural hindus to be the harvest festival when farmers offer prayers, and express their gratitude to the Almighty for the bounty they received from him.

Diwali Meaning & Significance

Deepavali is a festival where people from all age groups participate. They give expression to their happiness by lighting earthen 'diyas' (lamps), decorating the houses, bursting firecrackers and inviting near and dear ones to their households for partaking in a sumptuous feast. The lighting of lamps is a way of paying obeisance to god for attainment of health, wealth, knowledge, peace, valor and fame. It is one time in the whole year that children volunteer to leave their beds long before the day begins. In fact, the traditional oil bath at 3 a.m, is the only chore that stands between them and the pre-dawn adventures. They emerge, scrubbed clean to get into their festive attire, and light up little oil lamps, candles and scented sticks(agarbathis), the wherewithal for setting alight crackers and sparklers. On Diwali night, little clay lamps are lit in Hindus homes, but now a days colored electric lamps are also used. What is the significance of lighting a lamp? There is a logical answer to this question. It is through the light that the beauty of this world is revealed or experienced. Most civilizations of the world recognize the importance of light as a gift of God. It has always been a symbol of whatever is positive in our world of experience. To Hindus, darkness represents ignorance, and light is a metaphor for knowledge. Therefore, lighting a lamp symbolizes the destruction, through knowledge, of all negative forces- wickedness, violence, lust, anger, envy, greed, bigotry, fear, injustice, oppression and suffering, etc. Competition is stiff, and even the little girl in silk frocks and their finery are watching out for the best sparklers and flowerpots, the rockets and Vishnuchakras, which light-up the night sky like a thousand stars. Grown-ups are the soul of generosity. Festive bonhomie abounds.

Diwali Traditions & Customs
Deepavali, the literal meaning of which in Sanskrit is 'a row of lamps.' Filling little clay lamps with oil and wick and lighting them in rows all over the house is a tradition that is popular in most regions of the country. Even today in this modern world it projects the rich and glorious past of our country and teaches us to uphold the true values of life. It is associated with many customs and traditions. One of the most curious customs, which characterizes this festival of Diwali, is the indulgence of gambling, especially on a large scale in North India.
The first day of five day long Diwali celebrations is of great importance to the rich community of western India. Houses and business premises are renovated and decorated. Entrances are made colorful with lovely traditional motifs of Rangoli designs to welcome Lakshmi, the Goddess of wealth and prosperity. To indicate her long-awaited arrival, small footprints are drawn with rice flour and vermilion powder all over the houses. Lamps are kept burning all through the night. Believing this day to be auspicious women purchase some gold or silver or at least one or two new utensils.
Lakshmi-Puja is performed in the evenings when tiny diyas of clay are lighted to drive away the shadows of evil spirits, devotional songs- in praise of Goddess Laxmi are sung and Naivedya of traditional sweets is offered to the Goddess. There is a peculiar custom in Maharashtra to lightly pound dry coriander seeds with jaggery and offer as Naivedya In villages cattle are adorned and worshiped by farmers as they form the main source of their income. In south cows are offered special veneration as they are supposed to be the incarnation of Goddess Lakshmi and therefore they are adorned and worshiped on this day .
On second day there is a traditional practice specially in Maharashtra of taking bath before sunrise with oil and "Uptan" (paste) of gram flour and fragrant powders. In northern India, especially in places like Punjab, Diwali is dedicated to the worship of Lord Rama. While in Bengal, Kali/Durga, the goddess of strength, is worshiped. Diwali is one of the few Hindu festivals, which is celebrated in every part of the country, even in states like Kerala that has Onam as its main festival. To the Jains, Deepavali has an added significance to the great event of Mahaveera attaining the Eternal Bliss of Nirvaana.
Govardhan-Puja is also performed in the North on the fourth day. This day is also observed as Annakoot meaning 'mountain of food'. In temples especially in Mathura and Nathadwara, the deities are given milk bath and dressed in shining attires with ornaments of dazzling diamonds, pearls, rubies and other precious stones. After the prayers and traditional worship innumerable varieties of delicious sweets are offered to the deities as "Bhog" and then the devotees approach and take Prasad.
Goddess Lakshmi is worshiped in every Hindu household. In many Hindu homes it is a custom for the wife to put the red tilak on the forehead of her husband, garland him and do his "Aarti" with a prayer for his long life. In appreciation of all the tender care that the wife showers on him, the husband gives her a costly gift. This Gudi Padwa is symbolic of love and devotion between the wife and husband. On this day newly married daughters with their husbands are invited for special meals and given presents. Diwali celebration is a very happy occasion for all.

Diwali Celebrations

In the midst of today's busy lifestyle, Diwali gives an opportunity to pause and be grateful for what we have, to make special memories with family and friends, to laugh and enjoy what life offers us. Though the festival of Dipavali has undergone some changes, in due course of time, yet it has continued to be celebrated since the time immemorial. Every year, the festive season of Diwali comes back with all the excitement and merriment. Times may have undergone a sea change but customs and traditions remain the same.It is difficult to state that, since when the festival of Dipavali has been celebrating in its present form. In India, the economy is based on agriculture, this festival was believed to be started as the celebration of 'rituparva' thousands of years ago. By this time the harvest of crops were complete. As a result the people had not to worry about food for the rest of year. This joys of their reflected ion the illumination of countless lamps. In due course of time, numerous historical incidents got connected with this festival. There are many tales in the Puranas related with this festival. With the evolution of the lifestyle, there has been certain change in the way people celebrate Diwali, as more and more technology has been included, but the zeal and the spirit of celebration remains the same. Earthen lamps may have been replaced with stunning electric illuminations, dress code may have changed, but the custom and tradition of performing puja has been carried very well through generations. People wake up at the crack of dawn to conduct the customary pujas. Dressed in brilliant silks and glittering gold jewelry families gather and light crackers to usher in the great evening. After a session of bursting crackers, its time to visit friends and relatives. Armed with sweets and savories people meet their near and dear ones. Even today, Diwali is such a wonderful festival, a time of giving and sharing, a time to catch up with people, in other words its time to catch up with the little joys that we keep overlooking for the remaining part of the year.


Source: http://www.diwalifestival.org/

yesterday and today

Yesterday was my first day at work after a three week holiday getting married and getting used to the fact that I am now married. It feels strangely odd and different. Everything else remains the same and yet, somehow, nothing is the same anymore. I was speaking to a colleague of mine in hungary and the way we communicated was different from what it used to be. My other colleagues also started reacting to me in a different but subtle sort of way. Or perhaps I was only imagining these things?

Whatever it may be, being married is a BIG deal!!! There are so many things I have not even thought about that I need to now constantly think of. There are, on the other hand, things that I have always thought about that I perhaps would be better off not thinking them again. Things like that.

I also connected with a very old friend's wife over the internet this morning. He is a doctor and works in Rajasthan (north India) and she I think works somewhere in Mumbai. Its strange what the internet can do for you if you know how to harness it.......I have met Richard Tonsing,. for instance, over the internet and that got me interested in my surname/lastname and therefore my website(s) tonsing.zomi.net (Cant afford a website of my own or just have no time to migrate). That contact has inturn made lots of other possibilities like further contacts (I have communicated with Tonsings in South Africa, Australia etc).
Enough rambling. better get off the blogs and network sites and get onto do some work!!!
Until later.....byeeeeeeeeeeeeee...

On second thoughts!!! Thought I will add this picture too...(see above)

Today is a friday

I was just chatting with my good friend earlier today and I realised that it was a friday!! How strange it is not to realise it was a friday!! It wasnt very long ago that I would be impatiently waiting for weekends and looking for ways and means to have fun. Now I dont even realise it is the weekend cos my life after marriage has just been one loooong weekend till today and I didnt even realise it was actually friday!!!

Its funny if you think about it. You are sometimes too happy about somethng that you dont realise the fact that you are actually enjoying those very things you have always been dreaming about all the time. Like, you have been dreaming that you have a nice life, a good partner and stuff and once you have that, you dont even realise that its there and you kinda take it for granted!!!

We should all be thankful for the small and big blessing we get every single waking moment of our lives. Okay okay..I better shut up before I sound too pedantic!!!!

But watch this space.

Wednesday

Today is wednesday, November 1 2007. Bangalore or rather karnataka is celebrating their state day. While in Manipur, the hill people (to whom I belong) are celebrating a harvest festival called KUT. It is supposed to be a fun festival. However with the various militant groups showing their prowess, it does not really look like its going to be a festival. Some organisations have banned it, some have endorsed it, others have asked people to participate completely. The location of the festivities itself is within the police complex and is a direct deterrent to the full and festive participation of the people in huge numbers. There is usually a Miss Kut competition, songs, dances etc. Lets see what this time will bring forth.

Now to the more important topic. I have often heard married people saying how nice it is to be married and that marriage is a blessing. Well, they are wrong!! Marriage is a wonderful feeling, a blissful state of mind and a situation worthy of celestial celebration. Attached today is a picture of our wedding. More later people

My new life

My name is variably known as Khup, George. My name is George Goukhankhup Tonsing. I was born in the state of Manipur in the North-eastern corner of India and did all my education there with a short stint in Delhi University (Hans Raj College-- Ramjas college guys, eat your heart out!! haha). I now work with IBM in Bangalore, India, the silicon valley of India and the Garden city.
I have lived my life for more than 30 years alone. I know there were times and people with whom I thought I was very close and happy and thought those days and times would never end. However, they did indeed end and days and times of happiness were punctuated by times of melancholy and sadness.
However on the 20th October, 2007, I married Hoihvung at the Church of Christ Chapel in New Lamka, Churachandpur, Manipur. We have since moved to Bangalore and are busy setting up our home here. This is just an introduction to my life after I got married. If you want to know what I am like before marriage, please check http://tonsing.zomi.net/ for my interests and other aspects of my life and society.
I will be posting some pictures on this blog as well, so watch out!!!